Introduction

This blog is dedicated to my friend Fancy, who is going through the dark journey through hell that is separation and divorce.  I am her daily witness to the breakdown of her marriage, and I want to create this blog for her.  I know what separation is all about personally, and I know that it's hard to keep all the facts straight when you're an emotional puddle.  I want to keep a record of what she reports to me, so that I can help her to keep focused and realize that she is not crazy.  It's only natural to doubt ourselves and ask ourselves hundreds of times if we are going crazy when we take this journey.  I want Fancy to remember her strength and take note of her courage through this journey, as painful as it is.  I'm so proud of Fancy for honoring her own worth and for realizing that she deserves to be respected and valued as a woman and a wife.  I love her so much!!